Saturday, July 28, 2012

Special request ... 19 days and counting

Some of you may have noticed I changed our blog title to Brighter than the Sun. On Saturday, June 16th, on the way to World Market to pick up a couple of supplies for Avery's birthday party, this Colbie Caillet song came on the radio. It had only been about 16 hours since learning about Keane's heart defect and knowing that he had to have open heart surgery in order to live.

Music is powerful. Research suggests children who have familiar music playing while in recovery - especially in places like the ICU - have less anxiety. Every day since June 16th we have played Brighter than the Sun for Keane. Many of you know how much we like to dance. Just about every day we have our own version of Owen Dance Party. Caillet's song now makes Keane smile and calms him when he is fussy. He knows the song and he loves it.

If you haven't heard my chosen theme song for Keane, I've included a version with lyrics. However, this is our only Keane theme song. I am sure the Peds ICU and Med/Surg floor staff would appreciate some variety, as well as our family. So, my request to you:

Please reply to this post with the name of the song and the artist that you believe reflects a good theme song for Keane - one that he would enjoy listening to during his hospital stay

Keane's uncle James (Erin's brother) has agreed to help load our song and yours on an iPod. We need the songs soon, so we can start dancing to them and playing them at home. It's important the songs are familiar. We have only 19 days and counting...! 



Avery milestone... they look like people!

 This is Daddy and Grampo outside their tent (they went camping last weekend).
 Avery says this one (above) is her.
 The circle is their campfire.
The artist forgot to sign her work.

Cruising big boy style




Keane finally fits in his stroller sans the infant car seat. Watch out world, we're on the move!

Good news followed by another weight disappointment!

Tuesday afternoon I wrote about Keane's progress and normal weight gain. However, when I took him back on Thursday morning for a weigh-in, he only weighed 12oz  - a loss of the 3.5 oz gained the prior week. Mega bummer. Dr. Bob let me feed him and weigh him again. He gained 0.5 oz after I fed him. Dr. Bob said we could take 12lb. 0.5oz as his official weight.... but it didn't make me feel that much better. Nothing changed in 36 hours. What a roller coaster!

Baseline Assessment Results

It's been a really busy week at the Owen house. We have plenty of preparation and things to cross off of our list before Keane's surgery (19 days and counting). Last Tuesday, we were able to squeeze in a baseline assessment with the Co-Director of Early Childhood Cares (EC Cares). EC Cares is a program of the Child Development and Resource Center at the University of Oregon. Val came to the house and assessed Keane's current developmental milestones and skills. He sat up, rolled over, grabbed toys, made eyes follow objects in a circle, played with his toes  and demonstrated our best Super Man impression (for head control), among about a dozen other skills. Drum roll....

Keane is currently keeping pace with his peers. As of today, the limitations on his abilities that can be attributed to Down Syndrome are "very mild." In fact, his development is currently "normal." It's pretty funny to see a baby the size of a three month old doing some cute "big boy" skills.

Now that's great news.

Gymnastics fan club






Gymnastics fun






Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Good progress... 23 days and counting

Keane has returned to his normal perky self. Actually, he has been a total crack up lately. Very proud of his daily physical accomplishments. He is getting much stronger; able to hold his head up when going from laying to sitting position, sitting up with light support on his core and achieving a death grip on his sister's hair.

Today Keane had a great weigh-in. He's up to 12 lbs, 3.5 oz - aka normal weight gain...! Only 23 days to go until surgery.

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Ha! No mortal threat...

You really have to carve out the entire day when you go to the Children's Hospital. Today was the first time that Avery went to Doernbecher's also. She was really quite good and glad she finally got to meet the mysterious Dr. Kelly.

Where are we today? Well, we are keeping the increased dose of Lasix - that threat on Tuesday was real and the dose adjustment was necessary. He does have mild congestive heart failure because he does have a failing heart, but none of that is new information. The status update today - Keane has been sick. You may be thinking, well, "duh" (which is, the word of the month learned at preschool, if you can consider "duh" a word). However, not ill and deteriorating quickly due to his heart. Really, he has just been sick. The same type of sick that kids with perfectly great hearts suffer from on a regular basis. Ha! That's what it's like to be the parents of a cardiac kid - you assume that all negative health symptoms are a sign of impending doom.

Here we were thinking that he is practically on death's door with a sudden increase of symptoms: congestion, increased trouble breathing, cough, fatigue, diarrhea, poor appetite and pale skin color . Granted, he probably doesn't handle routine viral infections as well as kids with properly functioning tickers, but it wasn't a mortal threat, this time. Many of the symptoms of a common upper respiratory infections are signs of poor heart functioning. There is enough overlap that I don't feel completely lame. However, Grammy and I both laughed out loud when Dr. Kelly said, "well, it appears Keane has been suffering from a... (pause)... cold." Then Avery said in the car, "you know, sometimes you can get sick without getting snot-tles." Isn't that the truth? Dr. Kelly did reinforce the baby bubble mentality and gave Avery some good pointers on how to love on her brother without exposing him to  bugs that cause "snot-tles."

We did receive confirmation of a surgery date today. Keane will be having surgery on, or before, or sometime during the week that encompasses August 16th (aka practically the next millennium). Just this week there were three babies born at Doernbecher's that need more immediate repair, so we must channel our inner Zen and be flexible with the date.  As long as Keane is stable and comfortable we've got a few more weeks to go before the next phase of life can commence - the post-open heart surgery phase.



Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Heading to Portland...

...likely this afternoon following a stop at the pediatrician's office. Appointment tomorrow at 1230p for chest x-ray and follow-up with Dr. Kelly.

Keep you posted...